5 promises I want from my Man!

Some promises I want from my Man!

Relationship goals

Husbands…Highly crafty people, who usually tend to handle up their wives/girlfriends with ample delicacy & with lots of tongue twisters all the time around. With the perfect dossiers of “Uff we forgot” / “A sandwich between 2 females”, these men have grown exponentially out of the feminine world. But they still need to learn a lot from the women surrounding them, be it in personal or professional world.

But whatever might be the scene, these men have always managed to enter a woman’s heart & grab nearly 100% of it, be it with their love and care or humor or wittiness. They sense us like the roses & are always ready to spread our fragrances. It is they who make us look more beautiful. It is definitely they, who pamper us, be it in the form of father or boyfriends or husbands. Their qualities are pretty distinct but yes special for us, for a woman. Though they can’t understand & predict women mostly, [that’s what I love the most], they still are adorable beings.

Promises here :

There are few promises which I would love my partner to hold on for always. Promises are NOT meant to be BROKEN, but to be KEPT alive forever”.

1. Ensure making me feel special :

Do appreciate the way we manage tasks, be it at home or at offices. Appreciation doesn’t costs a penny but gives a sense of satisfaction to the hard work put in. We are always juggling with raising kids, managing house chores and professional tasks and trying 200% best in all of it. A positive sentence or even a Thanks will make me happy:).

2. Speak up your heart & mind :

Just like we “Crazy chatterbox women do”. I would love to hear everything from simplest to the complex. Instead of keeping every crap in heart, it’s always the best remedy to speak up & have conclusive discussions. Don’t get boggled up by having discussions between your brain & heart only. I’m there to hold & share some insightful points for your complexities.

3. Don’t ever let that passion of “Foodi-ness” ride out of your head :

I just love the way you experiment with foods , anytime and anywhere. It amazes me & knocks my heart heavily! Keep that passion ever growing.

4. Promise me a trip around the world :

Well not in 80 days but it can be in next 10 years. That’s a selfish desire, but then this is for my soul. Travelling & sporting adventure is my passion. You’ve been supporting me in it, but let’s promise to be aggressive, life’s short. Make me go around. I’m waiting surprise tickets to a big list getting bigger every month:).

5. Continue your Baby Love :

Your love for kid is just awesome. I get jealous of it, just kidding. A kid seeks so much of happiness, is a bundle of innocence. For kid his parents are the only world, around which he wants to revolve & evolve. Your empathy, endurance and understanding towards him and me, as a mama is just great. Keep that spirit high.

Lastly, a true confession & a promise never to let it die. I don’t desire your credit cards or flaunt big shopping fantasies, I don’t demand those biggies of the world. But yes, I want you to love me forever, no matter how harsh circumstances may come!

Every Man needs a woman & every woman needs a man. Not just when there is a mess in the chess & a queen protects the King, but even while strolling on the lanes in night we’re aware of the sense of protection in you!

Cheers to this Great Bonding!


Quest to live the life surrounded with the charming little bundle's of joy. When they speak, I sing, When they smile, I rejoice , When they hug, I hold them never to lose, Such is my passion for these Gifts of God.This love urged me to navigate separately from my Travel Blog & establish an "All-In-One" Blog for budding mothers. Mum's have multi-tasked this world ,with all her professional commitments , she still makes an extra effort to be a loving, caring and be an intellectual mommy! Cheers, for me too come from the same fraternity, post having a superb academics & close to 8 years of professional experience and blessed with a little one "who has indeed changed my life from Autumn to Spring";)

This Post Has 26 Comments

  1. Ty

    These are terrific tips. I am currently single but I did take some notes. It’s always good to be ready when you find love, right?

    1. Jhilmil

      Ha ha, you know the lovey dovey scene changes after marriages a lot:)

  2. Tammymum

    Well if anyone can offer a trip round the world get they’re a keeper. Some lovely ideas though, everyone wants to feel special

  3. Meera

    If husbands are understanding and promising, all wives are lucky 😛 Awesome tips for a happy marriage. Cheers to great bonding. 🙂

  4. livanie´s

    That´s such a beautiful post! My husband and me actually just started to travel around the world 🙂

  5. Rose Montgomery

    This was very nice. You are right a queen needs her king just like a king needs his queen. Foodie and traveling sound good too. It’s nice how you complimented him.

  6. Marie Novak

    Great tips! My husband and I have been married for 17 years. We are traveling partners now mostly taking are kids in tow.

    1. Jhilmil

      Wow, 17years, simply great!! Keep travelling!

  7. Jenny Finney

    I love these promises. My husband and I have become so ritual, that we always take annual vacations, go out every Saturday night, whether it’s just an hour away to eat or just a drive out of town. These, I hope, never end.

    1. Jhilmil

      Wow, these are small memories when we are just with one another and explore something new!

  8. Amber

    This is so sweet! I have the same thoughts towards my husband. We do like to travel but with his job it’s hard for him to find time off.

    1. Jhilmil

      Yea, can understand that being Military man, time with family is always a crunch!

  9. nlampert

    A trip around the world sounds pretty incredible! I agree that ppreciation is so important in relationships, particularly when you have a lot going on and are raising a family together.

    1. Jhilmil

      I hope he listens to Trip around the world, lol. Thanks

  10. Anderson Kongoda

    Thank you for sharing. Great promises, I hope your husband fulfill them for you.

  11. Steph

    These are such sweet promises that essentially keeps the passion in a relationship burning. It’s the little things that truly count. Thanks for sharing!

  12. Happy marriage requires mutual respect, love and actions from each other. Having these kind of husband is a gift. Enjoy the little things with each others. I hope I get one who can make me travel the world too. haha!

    1. Jhilmil

      That’s so true Anosa..and yes getting a Travelling husband is like..Wow, I wanted this, lol!

  13. C-Ludik

    That’s such a nice post with some lovely ideas. For sure, everyone wants to feel special ! It’s really important to enjoy the little things with each others. My husband and I like to discover at least one or two new countries every year… We started to travel 15 years ago 😉 and we still have so many countries to visit together !

    1. Jhilmil

      wow, that’s beautiful15 years..We’ve started just 6 years ago and hope to accomplish all dreams:)

  14. Middle Eats

    These are great promises, here’s hoping you have many wonderful years together.

  15. I had a failed marriage but I related it to being young and stupid. Now after 31 years so many of these tips are part of it.

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