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Letter of working Mom to her Baby

A Guilty working MOM writes for her son, when he was a year old!

A year back you entered in this world

So lovely..So pure..Unaware of the Cosmos!

You intensified my Emotions

and made me realise the “Real Love”!

Your coo’s made me grin..

Your smile made me Jubilant..

Your naughtiness made me more Playful..

Your tenderness made me Proud ..

It was when you were in me, I vowed to be with you forever & ever!

But there was another life waiting for me!

Devoid of that “Pure love”, but again to make us “Contented”

But that could never be at the cost of your smile!

Oh Dear Baby.. My struggle’s have known no boundaries

When I juggle to keep both in my arms..

With my lap making you sleep & my fingers shuffling to complete the task..

With one arm holding you & other cooking meals for you..

Finishing house hold chores when you are asleep..Coz I won’t stop myself loving & adoring you when you are awake..

Covering up “official tasks” in a limited span..

Just to find you elated and playful looking at me!

Yes, even after giving 100% to this bond, few instances might have forced me to ignore you:(

That Ignorance can never be prolonged…It can only be momentary !

My heart throbs hearing you cry when you need me & I’m unable to hug & pamper you 🙁

Oh Baby!! Pardon me for those few moments..Free me from those bonds..

It’s you & only you who made me realize the bliss of Innocence,

It’s only you who made me feel contented!

Its only you who can make me cry & laugh together!

I assure you’ll be in my arms for ever & ever, may any situation come across

I assure you’ll always have my love besides you, even in a nasty state

I re-assure you my baby of all the goodies of life!

Interested to read my Positive Parenting story, here you go!

working mom and baby
 Baby Hug

Jhilmil

Quest to live the life surrounded with the charming little bundle's of joy. When they speak, I sing, When they smile, I rejoice , When they hug, I hold them never to lose, Such is my passion for these Gifts of God.

This love urged me to navigate separately from my Travel Blog & establish an "All-In-One" Blog for budding mothers. Mum's have multi-tasked this world ,with all her professional commitments , she still makes an extra effort to be a loving, caring and be an intellectual mommy! Cheers, for me too come from the same fraternity, post having a superb academics & close to 8 years of professional experience and blessed with a little one "who has indeed changed my life from Autumn to Spring";)

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  2. Amber says:

    This is so sweet! The son will love reading this when he’s older. It would be tough to be a working mom. I am blessed that I’m able to stay home with the kids and I know it.

    1. u’re really blessed, juggling up is so difficult n painful!

  3. That’s very sweet. That sums up the struggles of a working mom well!

  4. audriaallred says:

    Beautifuly written! Working moms are so amazing!

    1. Thank you so much:)

  5. What a great write-up you have there. I love it.

    1. Thank u so much! Appreciate you liked it:)

    2. Thank you so much for loving:)

  6. While this was written from a working mom’s point of view I could also say that there are many working dads that feel similar to this. Great post!

    1. Can perfectly agree to the same for a great dad too:) U dad’s just rock!

  7. I think working moms get a lot of rubbish from people, for not saying at home. Keep doing you! xo

    1. Seriously, in India, once you have a baby, you are kinda “supposed” to be at home, else you ought to listen much rubbish:(

  8. You son will proud and will sure love it when he reads it… Lovely piece written.

    1. Aww.. That’s really sweet of you! Hope he reads & loves it later when he understands a MOM!

  9. Beautiful Read 🙂 That guilty feeling is so real! As a mom of 2 and someone that works from home I am constantly guilty of not being able to spend enough time with them….

    1. Be it home or Office, that guilty feel really comes & sucks MOM! We love to spend every second with our babies

  10. Very sweet. I also struggle with the guilt of being a working mom, but someday they will understand the sacrifice. Thanks doe sharing!

    1. Hopefully, one day they will understand the emotions & sacrifice of Moms & dads too!

  11. It’s only you who made me feel contented!

    Its only you who can make me cry & laugh together! – How true and how sweet. I can relate to it completely and I am sure your son is going to love it when he grows up.

    1. Thank you so much Deepa! Hope he understands the emotions of being a MOM!

  12. alifeofauthenticity says:

    These words are so true for many working moms. Thank you for memorializing them in this post.

    1. Thanks:)

  13. the wise hero says:

    Its so beautiful. Such great emotion. Your son will love this when he understands.

    1. Thank you so much Pooja! Hope he understands the emotions of being a MOM!

  14. Beautifully written, as a mom it was so bitter sweet going back to work while my son was in school.

    1. Can so very well relate Tasheena! Kudos to great Moms!

  15. its so emotional !! this is the i don’t work outside somwhere !! want to give my full attention

    1. That’s such a great decision on your part, really admire it!

  16. oneloveourlove1114 says:

    You are simply amazing. So sweet.

    1. Aww..thanks:)

  17. All moms go through this struggle .But rest assured your son knows how much you love him.

    1. Thanks for the assurance:)

  18. Milica says:

    This is so nice and touching! Eventhough I have been stay at home mom these past 5 years, I can completaly understand you.

    1. So sweet of you! Thanks

  19. A lovely letter to your son! It is definitely difficult to be a working mother

    1. Thanks, it really is!

  20. That’s so lovely!

  21. Kavita Singh says:

    Such beautiful words, I am sure one day when your little one grows up and understand the emotions behind this, he will be really proud of you…

    1. Love u Kavita for saying this! I hope so he understands my emotions!

  22. Such a sweet post! Working moms are amazing!
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    1. Thanks:)

  23. What a beautifully written poem! It’s absolutely beautiful!

    1. Thank you so much Nina:)

  24. nkbrokaw88 says:

    I really enjoyed reading this. It is so hard being a working mom, but I do think you are more present when you are actually with your children, because you have to embrace that time! I went back to work full-time after maternity leave for 4 months, but my mental health was suffering, so I went down to just a part-time fill-in, and that has been the perfect balance for me.

    1. Ya part time is a perfect blend, keeping the professional life & mum’s life on a great track!Great you opted that. Thanks for enjoying the read:)

  25. Such a beautifully written letter, I could feel all the emotions. I can not even begin to imagine what it must be like being separated from your child due to the worldly tasks etc.

    1. Thank you so much Anosa! In the start it was like everything was snatched from me, I felt so guilty..I had tears in my eyes daily, when I saw him after a stint of work! Was really tough

  26. rogerspartyof5 says:

    What a sweet letter! It brought tears to my eyes. I have been both a working mom and a stay at home mom, and I have felt every emotion that you described.

    1. Aww.. That’s such a sweet appreciation. Since you have been both, you could so very well understand my position. Thank you so much for reading it out:)

  27. This poem definitely has touched my heart! It was sweet and the emotions poured into this poem felt real! Your son will definitely understand you when the right time comes. 🙂

    Have a great day, love,
    beforbeauty.com

    1. Aww, thank you so much for these golden words! Lots of love 🙂

  28. This is so sweet! Loved this read!

  29. Good read..enjoy!

  30. Awesome Poem thanks to share

  31. What a beautiful and tender note. It’s true what she said, I remember crying when my first son had his first step ON DAY CARE… I couldn’t stop feeling guilty and like a horrible mom.

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